A Home of My Own

The Friendships that Last.

Some friendships arrive quietly. They don’t announce themselves as life-changing. They simply show up — again and again — until one day you realize they helped shape who you are and what you believe. This holiday season, as we gathered for Secret Santa with the Shining Beautiful team and shared brunch with friends, we found […]

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When the Lights Flicker Out: Government Shutdowns, Disability, and the Unseen Cost on Families.

It is Oct 1, 2025—another government shutdown. In the quiet hours before dawn, when the world still clings to hope, a mother sits on her porch, coffee growing cold, wondering: How will we manage tomorrow? For families like mine — families of disability, of high stakes, of fragile structures held together by resolve — the

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Mikelle, a woman in a wheelchair is wearing a silk long coat and is accompanies by Maryann a young woman with brown hair in a red dress designed for the fashion show.

Shining on the Runway: Disability, Fashion, and the Power of Presence

Denver Fashion Week There’s something magical about being seen—not just looked at, but truly seen. This June, Mikelle lit up the runway at Denver Fashion Week, and the glow didn’t stop at the edge of the stage. It extended into the crowd, into the community, into all of us who had the privilege of witnessing

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Summer, Uninterrupted: Finding Joy Amid Uncertainty

New Normal Let’s face it—uncertainty is the new normal, especially for families navigating disability services and supports. Between policy shifts, staffing shortages, and the ongoing tug-of-war over Medicaid and special education funding, it’s easy to feel like you’re stuck waiting for the next shoe to drop. You Deserve Joy But here’s the truth: you deserve

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From Baby Swings to Business Cards: Raising Resilient, Capable Adults.

Now that Mikelle and I are both older—she is approaching forty-two, and I am well into my next chapter—I often look back on the winding path that brought us here. Time has given me the perspective to reflect on what truly made the difference in helping her shape her future. It wasn’t just the therapies,

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Love in the Crossfire: Navigating Valentine’s Day in a Divided World

The Lingering Scent of Conflict Conflict smells vague and bitter—like day-old coffee, sulfur before a match ignites, or uncollected trash lingering too long on a sweltering day. It clings to frozen sidewalks on a frosty morning, settling into the cracks of daily life. Left unattended, conflict can shudder a window, shut a door, or close a once-open

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Feel the Disappointments—Then Transform Them

        On Chronic Grieving, Courage, and Living Forward Let me say this clearly, because it bears repeating—and because it is too often left unsaid. Disappointment does not mean you failed.Grief does not mean you are weak.And fatigue—deep, bone-tired fatigue—is not a personal flaw. Grief is ever-present in our lives, woven quietly through

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A Shining Beautiful Christmas: Finding Joy in the Little Things

A time of good cheer. The holiday season is always a special time for the Shining Beautiful Team. It’s a chance to gather with our favorite people, share laughter, and celebrate all the moments that make life meaningful. But this year, like so many others, we’ve had to adjust and find new ways to embrace

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Medicaid: How the 2024 Presidential Election Could Reshape Disability Services

As we gear up for the 2024 presidential election, it’s a good time to reflect on how previous battles over healthcare, particularly Medicaid, have shaped the support systems that millions of people rely on today. It feels like déjà vu—just like in 2017, there are concerns that the programs we depend on could be drastically

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Independence Day with Mikelle: A Celebration of Freedom and Resilience

Independence Day is a time for celebration, reflection, and coming together as a community. It represents the freedom and independence that we all cherish. I think Mikelle embodies the true spirit of community, resilience, and the American desire and opportunities to achieve your dreams. For many years, our family has celebrated Denver’s 3rd of July

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